REWARD FOR SPOUSES TREATING ONE ANOTHER KINDLY.

reward for treating spoue kindly

REWARD FOR SPOUSES TREATING ONE ANOTHER KINDLY.

I ask Allaah to preserve the love and happiness between spouses, and to fill the houses of all Muslims with that which has filled house of good companionship and kind treatment.Many glad tidings of which our Prophet Muhammad (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) spoke when explaining the reward of the spouses.

Umm Salamah narrated that The Messenger of Allah said:

“Whichever woman dies while her husband is pleased with her, then she enters Paradise.” (Hasan)

SUNAN TIRMIDHI (Vol. 1, Book 7, Hadith 1161)

It was narrated from ‘Abd al-Rahmaan ibn ‘Awf (may Allaah be pleased with him) that the Messenger of Allaah (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said:“If a woman does her five (daily prayers), fasts her month (Ramadaan), guards her chastity and obeys her husband, it will be said to her: Enter whichever of the gates of Paradise you want.”

DARAQTUNI (HADITH 772)
MUSNAD AHMAD (HADITH 1595)

SOURCE OF DARAQTUNI :-

http://www.islamweb.net/hadith/display_hbook.php?bk_no=548&pid=130015&hid=772

SOURCE OF MUSNAD AHMAD :-

http://www.islamweb.net/hadith/display_hbook.php?bk_no=121&pid=672333&hid=1595

Narrated that Abu Hurayrah said: The Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said: “If a woman prays her five (daily prayers), fasts her month (Ramadaan), guards her chastity and obeys her husband, it will be said to her: ‘Enter Paradise from whichever of the gates of Paradise you wish.’

IBN HIBBAN (HADITH 4252)

SOURCE OF IBN HIBBAN :-

http://www.islamweb.net/hadith/display_hbook.php?hflag=1&bk_no=454&pid=385741

It was narrated from Anas (may Allaah be pleased with him) that the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said:“Shall I not tell you about your men in Paradise?” We said: Yes, O Messenger of Allaah. He said: “The Prophet will be in Paradise, the Siddeeq will be in Paradise, the man who visits his brother who lives far away and visits him only for the sake of Allaah will be in Paradise. Shall I not tell you about your women in Paradise?” We said: Yes, O Messenger of Allaah. He said: “The loving and fertile one who, if she gets angry or is mistreated or her husband gets angry says, ‘Here is my hand in your hand, I shall not sleep until you are pleased.’”

TABARANI MUJ’AM AL-AWSAT (HADITH 1779)

SOURCE OF TABARANI :-

http://www.islamweb.net/hadith/display_hbook.php?bk_no=475&hid=1779&pid=674343


It was narrated from Husayn ibn Muhsin (may Allaah be pleased with him) that his paternal aunt went to the Messenger of Allaah (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) concerning some need and he met her need, then he said: “Do you have a husband?” She said: Yes. He said: “How are you with him?” She said: I do what he tells me, except what is beyond me. He said: “Look at how you are with him, for he is your Paradise and your Hell.”

MUSNAD AHMAD (HADITH 26806)
SUNAN BAIHAQI (HADITH 43)

SOURCE OF MUSNAD AHMAD.

http://www.islamweb.net/newlibrary/display_book.php?idfrom=26088&idto=26088&bk_no=6&ID=1254

SOURCE OF SUNAN BAIHAQI :-

http://www.islamweb.net/hadith/display_hbook.php?bk_no=664&pid=141206&hid=43

AL-MANAAWI SAID :-

He is the cause of your entering Paradise if he is pleased with you, and the cause of your entering Hell if he is displeased with you. So treat him well and do not disobey his commands with regard to that which is not a sin.

(FAYD AL-QADEER 3/60)

As for the glad tidings which came to the husband who treats his wife kindly, it is when the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) testified that he had perfect faith which dictated that he should enter Paradise, and that he is superior to all people.

Abu Hurairah narrated that The Messenger of Allah said:“The most complete of the believers in faith, is the one with the best character among them. And the best of you are those who are best to your women.” (Hasan)

SUNAN TIRMIDHI (Vol. 1, Book 7, Hadith 1162)

Narrated Sa’d bin Abi Waqqas:

Allah’s Apostle said, “You will be rewarded for whatever you spend for Allah’s sake even if it were a morsel which you put in your wife’s mouth.”

SAHIH BUKHARI (Vol. 1, Book 2, Hadith 54)

Posted on October 28, 2012, in OTHERS and tagged , , , . Bookmark the permalink. 3 Comments.

  1. jazak allah khair bhai

  2. shaikhmahemood010@gmail.com

    Masha Allah..

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